Advices In Becoming Like Chief Steve McCullough

By Deborah Wallace


Not everybody is fit to be this kind of leader. However, if you have received this calling, then simply do everything you can in helping someone see the good in life. Keep them away from their vices and suicidal thoughts. Become responsible for them and realize that you are strong enough to revive someone who wants to end everything.

You should live the values of Christ in your life. Just like Sundance Chief Steve McCullough, you have to be able to live by example. If not, then you will never have a decent group of followers. Just be naturally good and you shall be able to convert more people along the way. Let this be your main mission in life.

Be kind to everyone you meet. When you begin to do things without expecting anything in return, then that is when you could handle the personalities of all your followers. You can never shape them into perfect individuals. What you can do is to bring Christ into their lives which would inspire them to be good most of the time.

Let them discover their personal purpose. You may give advices when they are being asked but you need to be lenient enough and allow them to spread their wings and fly. If they commit mistakes, then welcome them with open arms once again. Do not judge them because they tried and they are sorry for their sins.

Ask them about their workplace. Problem can occur in several aspects in the life of an individual. So, be brave enough to push them to open up to you. Make them see that no matter what happens, they would always have a friend in you. They just need to accept the fact that they shall always hear the truth from you.

Transform them in the best way you can. However, this is not according to your personal standards. Change them for the better and based on the teachings of the Church. Never make them feel that they have been wrong in acting themselves. Do not take away their complete identity because that can get them back to the crack.

Just manage to be physically and emotionally present during your sessions. When they see that you are giving them everything you got, then they shall eventually do the same. That is essential when all of you need to stand firm in a generation that is full of temptations. It may not be the easiest thing to do but when you stand as one, then miracles can happen.

You should know their deepest secrets. That is the only way that one will be able to help them. Spend time outside of the sessions and make them look at you as a vulnerable human being as well.

Overall, just make sure that you are ready for all the challenges that this role can bring. It may get tougher depending on your follower but you can make it. Just believe in the Grace of God and manage to take things one step at a time. Do not rush anyone into total conversion and lose them.




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